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Care and Feeding of Galiana

availability, dear galiana, history, issues, vertigo, writing 2 Responses »

Sep 162011

In the probably-forgettable movie Made In Heaven, seen in my impressionable youth, a new soul falls in love with a guy named Mike in heaven, and then, after she’s born and grows up, although she doesn’t remember him directly, she writes a children’s book called “The Care and Feeding of Mike”. The sweet little phrase stuck with me, and now when I think of care, I think “The Care and Feeding of…” Urg. I have so much want. I want to continue the dialog I entered into with my celebration of male submissives post, reading others’ spectacular writings and leaving comments that make me seem like I know what I’m talking about. I want to keep engaging with Fizz and Chaos of Lab Coats & [read more...]

Tell Me You Love Me

love, lust, manipulation, what I want, words, writing 11 Responses »

Sep 062011

I just realized, just this moment, that there is a phrase I utter in my fantasies, in my mind, all the time, that I can hear echoing in my head as the prelude to almost any self-arousal, and as an essential part of any masturbation, but I have never uttered it during phone sex: tell me you love me Late at night, when I start getting sleepy and snuggly, and I take a deep breath and listen to my body, those words echo through my mind before I know where they will lead, but they set the stage. tell me you love me I worry about being manipulative, even though I know sometimes I am, by the nature of the business. But I have lines [read more...]

New Tagline

blog meta, feedback slut, words 2 Responses »

Aug 312011

I asked for advice on a new blog tagline, and I’ve settled on one. The old one was: The Blogged Life of Galiana Chance, a phone sex operator with a fetish for variety The new one is: The Phone Sex Blog of Galiana Chance, a genuine gal and “a very satisfying phone fuck” Many thanks to SAFL for repeating the word “genuine” often enough for me to finally remember it, and to Gravelly Moon for his very first feedback to me ever, which was, “Witty, sexy, fun, and completely in to my fantasy. She’s a great flirt and a very satisfying phone fuck.” I had been taking calls for 15 days. His feedback made me high. The old blog tagline sounded classy, well-written, and maybe [read more...]

Phone Sex Blog Superlative

blog meta, me asking for help, PSO issues 8 Responses »

Aug 222011

I like to think that I have a blog that’s interesting to read, and I would love to make it easier for people to find it. I don’t even make it to the Google search for “phone sex blog” on any page. Sad. So I’m thinking of re-doing my tag line, from “Chance It: The Blogged Life of Galiana Chance, phone sex operator with a fetish for variety” to “Chance It: The Most _________ Phone Sex Blog in the World” But… what to put in that superlative spot? Obviously, any qualitative claim I could put in that blank would be ridiculous, narcissistic, over-the-top, and impossible to quantify. Perfect. The most honest? The most real? The realest (is that word)? The most varied? Or should I [read more...]

Switches Get It…

dear galiana, inner cast, my way, the biz, words 2 Responses »

Aug 102011

Now that I have rewritten my Mistress / Dominant / Domme / Domina / FemDom / Toppy / insert your term of choice to indicate “the partner in charge of leading the activities” phone sex listings, and I am happy enough with them for the time being (to refresh your memory, they look like this: http://www.niteflirt.com/ms+galiana), it’s time to start advertising. As I researched options, I found myself posing this question to the owner of a very well-trafficked Domme site: My “unique spin” – if you will – is that I am not a princess-ey bitch; instead, I am a nice, empathetic human being who genuinely enjoys focusing sexual attention on submissive males. I truly enjoy directing them to distraction. Do you think there is [read more...]

A Year and A Fortnight

celebration, inner cast, issues, my lusts, vertigo No Responses »

Aug 022011

I started taking phone sex calls July 15, 2010, a few days after my husband took this picture of me in our kitchen to test the camera on his new phone. I hadn’t yet started writing my first version of my listing, because I didn’t yet know about NiteFlirt, but I had applied with a couple of dispatch phone sex services. I wrote blog posts about my quarter anniversary and my six-month anniversary. Then on July 15, 2011, I completely forgot to write about my 1-year anniversary. When I realized it, two very socially busy days later, I figured I’d wait until my blog anniversary (8/15) and do something then. On July 24, 2011, I got an email, with the subject line, “No?” and content [read more...]

Ms Galiana Reborn

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Jul 282011

I am pleased to announce the renaming and rewriting of my dominant listings. Please welcome Ms Galiana: http://www.niteflirt.com/Ms+Galiana I had angst about this rename and rewrite. Many of the common possible titles (like Mistress, Goddess, Domme) felt too limiting… yes, I can be that role, but I can also be the others. The previous name, and listing text, felt dishonest, like more a reflection of what I saw others doing than what I was truly interested in doing myself. This version of the listing is me. And apparently, “me” is seriously damn verbose. My angsting seems to have resulted in a metric fuck-ton of text; more of a novella than a phone sex listing. I included a few good pictures to balance, but I probably over-explained. [read more...]

First Draft of New Listings

me asking for help, writing No Responses »

Apr 142011

I’m thinking of something like this when I update my listings this week… (except the pics will show up larger there) Questions for you: What do you think? What am I missing? What do I have too much of? What could be better? Does it feel like “me” to you? And… ideas for a new title? Help, I’m seriously stuck on that part… ===== My Blog: Get to know me better – http://galianachance.com/blog My Calendar: Log-in schedule for the next seven days – http://galianachance.com/blog/calendar/ My Voice: Hear a voice sample of me saying hi! Fetish For Variety: It’s hard to answer the question “what turns you on?” because the list is so long and varied. Soft and sensual, hard and rough, topping, subbing, teasing, degrading, [read more...]

Request for Listing Input

gfe, hypno, me asking for help, my lovers, power, subbing, topping, variety, writing 2 Responses »

Apr 122011

I used to think that I did things in weird ways until I worked with dozens of programmers. Then I learned that most people do things in their own unique fashion, and that if you give them room to do things their way, often it will be most efficient for them. When I have a big, complicated project looming — like, for example, rewriting all my listings — I need to ponder it a while before I actually start making changes. I am currently in my mulling phase, which means I’m pleasantly distracting myself by importing my transaction detail into an Access database , and automating the process to parse customer name and transaction type. Inner Data Analyst: It’s about frikkin’ time! The Excel process [read more...]

Feedback Nightmare & Epilogue

my lovers, phone sex, writing 2 Responses »

Feb 222011

Feedback Nightmare a play in One Act, plus Epilogue by Galiana Chance closely based on a very true story ACT ONE GALIANA, 40, pleasantly pudgy with casual sexual confidence, lays asleep on her half of her comfortable queen-sized bed. Her HUSBAND, just shy of his 41st birthday, attempts to slip into bed beside her, unnoticed. Galiana (sleepily, reaching for him): I had a nightmare… Husband (unsure if she’s talking in her sleep): What happened? Galiana: Someone left me feedback. Bad feedback. It was one-star. He said I wasn’t committed because I wasn’t available. He didn’t know we’re packing, we’re moving… Husband (resting his hand on her cheek): Fuck your dream makers, honey. Fuck them in half. We’re okay. Galiana (grinning as she drifts back to [read more...]

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