Switches Get It…

 dear galiana, inner cast, my way, the biz, words  2 Responses »
Aug 102011
 
Switches Get It...

Now that I have rewritten my Mistress / Dominant / Domme / Domina / FemDom / Toppy / insert your term of choice to indicate “the partner in charge of leading the activities” phone sex listings, and I am happy enough with them for the time being (to refresh your memory, they look like this: http://www.niteflirt.com/ms+galiana), it’s time to start advertising. As I researched options, I found myself posing this question to the owner of a very well-trafficked Domme site: My “unique spin” – if you will – is that I am not a princess-ey bitch; instead, I am a nice, empathetic human being who genuinely enjoys focusing sexual attention on submissive males. I truly enjoy directing them to distraction. Do you think there is [read more...]

Thoughts on Rates

 phone sex operator, PSO data, the biz  6 Responses »
Aug 052011
 
Thoughts on Rates

I did not follow one of the best pieces of advice I ever got when I was first starting out: you’re new, so you can afford to play with your rates, so keep raising them by $0.10/min every two weeks or so until you find your sweet spot. Instead, after a month at $0.99/min ($0.55/min to me) to build feedback, I jumped to $1.49/min ($0.90/min to me). It was a smashing success. The 63% raise more than compensated for the callers who quit me. I felt justified at having bypassed the slow, painful rate creep. Perhaps counter-intuitively, I lost many of my very short callers (under-10-minute average), fewer people insisted that I send them free minutes before they’d try me out, and I found more [read more...]

Ms Galiana Reborn

 topping  No Responses »
Jul 282011
 
Ms Galiana Reborn

I am pleased to announce the renaming and rewriting of my dominant listings. Please welcome Ms Galiana: http://www.niteflirt.com/Ms+Galiana I had angst about this rename and rewrite. Many of the common possible titles (like Mistress, Goddess, Domme) felt too limiting… yes, I can be that role, but I can also be the others. The previous name, and listing text, felt dishonest, like more a reflection of what I saw others doing than what I was truly interested in doing myself. This version of the listing is me. And apparently, “me” is seriously damn verbose. My angsting seems to have resulted in a metric fuck-ton of text; more of a novella than a phone sex listing. I included a few good pictures to balance, but I probably over-explained. [read more...]

Question of the Day

 hypno, me asking for help, name, topping, words  6 Responses »
May 102011
 

Since my two other usernames have been dormant for so long while I’m (ostensibly) rewriting them, I am considering renaming them as well as reworking them. The one that was known as “Mistress Galiana” (which I’m about halfway done rewriting) will be changing to “Ms Galiana”. I considered and rejected “Lady Galiana” “Queen Galiana” “Domme Galiana” “Vixen Galiana” “Minx Galiana” “Goddess Galiana” “Galiana In Charge” “Galiana Leads” and plain old “Galiana Chance”. My reasons for rejection were many, but it basically boils down to “I think too much about details like this, but fer fuxx sake just pick one already”. I was planning on leaving my hypnosis-focused username as is: “Hypno Galiana” but a long-time caller suggested the possibility of “Galiana Trance”. I can’t decide [read more...]

First Draft of New Listings

 me asking for help, writing  No Responses »
Apr 142011
 
First Draft of New Listings

I’m thinking of something like this when I update my listings this week… (except the pics will show up larger there) Questions for you: What do you think? What am I missing? What do I have too much of? What could be better? Does it feel like “me” to you? And… ideas for a new title? Help, I’m seriously stuck on that part… ===== My Blog: Get to know me better – http://galianachance.com/blog My Calendar: Log-in schedule for the next seven days – http://galianachance.com/blog/calendar/ My Voice: Hear a voice sample of me saying hi! Fetish For Variety: It’s hard to answer the question “what turns you on?” because the list is so long and varied. Soft and sensual, hard and rough, topping, subbing, teasing, degrading, [read more...]

Role Play Up, Sex Down

 PSO data, role play, technosexual  No Responses »
Apr 132011
 

I have a listing in the “Role Play” category that I started specifically to market to the ASFR / android / robot girl / technosexual / fembot / gynoid crowd. (Dear That Crowd: please settle on a name for yourselves… /grin ) And today, that listing is ranked higher as a Top Pick than my listing in the “Sex” category when you look in “Find Women“, which is the approximate equivalent of searching for “All Women”. Or, if you’re a geek, it’s a ‘find . -print’ from the root. Top Picks is the default search order, and it is heavily weighted by activity in the past two weeks: calls, repeat calls, new callers, pay-to-views, click-through rate, and feedback. My main listing has almost always been [read more...]

Request for Listing Input

 gfe, hypno, me asking for help, my lovers, power, subbing, topping, variety, writing  2 Responses »
Apr 122011
 

I used to think that I did things in weird ways until I worked with dozens of programmers. Then I learned that most people do things in their own unique fashion, and that if you give them room to do things their way, often it will be most efficient for them. When I have a big, complicated project looming — like, for example, rewriting all my listings — I need to ponder it a while before I actually start making changes. I am currently in my mulling phase, which means I’m pleasantly distracting myself by importing my transaction detail into an Access database , and automating the process to parse customer name and transaction type. Inner Data Analyst: It’s about frikkin’ time! The Excel process [read more...]

Galiana 2K!

 celebration, cuckold, humiliation, phone sex  No Responses »
Mar 162011
 

Go, go Galiana! My “Sex” listing just hit a rating of 2,000 points! Yay! And for those of you keeping track, yesterday was exactly 8 months since I took my first call. The milestone doesn’t mean anything in terms of callers finding me more easily, but it’s been fun to watch it climb over the last few days and wonder who was going to push it over the edge. Turns out, it was a new caller, on for 17 minutes, who wanted a humiliating cuckolding girlfriend role play. I surprised him on his birthday by setting up a threesome, and when he arrived at my apartment, looking forward to having two women blow him, I was tangled up naked in bed with a gentleman with [read more...]

Fuckatorium 2.0, Blog Post 300!

 dear galiana, fuckatorium, phone sex, videos  No Responses »
Mar 132011
 

I have set up The Fuckatorium enough for me to re-open my cam listing, and this is my 300th Blog Post! (queue streamers, horns, ticker tape, merriment and mirth all around) On 300 blog posts: Considering I started blogging Aug 15, that’s a little better than 40 blog posts per month… which is probably too damn many, but I’ve learned to accept and (usually) love my chattiness. I am proud of many of the things I’ve written here, and I have been touched again and again by the responses of people who have found the blog. On the Fuckatorium and cam: I wanted my 300th post to be special, so I spent the day finalizing my space, and I did a little video tour of [read more...]

Cam Launch Sunday!

 celebration, honesty, phone sex, videos  No Responses »
Feb 132011
 

/gulp… I’m doing it! I’m going on cam! ZOIKES! Please drop by my brand new cam listing, which will be going live today (Sunday Feb 13) after I get all pampered up…  http://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9507267 I’ll be posting an “outfit of the day” picture right before I log on each day. I’m super nervous that someone will be disappointed. I’ve only done cam sex as an amateur when lovers were out of town, and I never got complaints, but it is much different to be paid. In fact, I’m this nervous: In case you can’t watch that video, let me describe it for you: wiggly, self-doubting, with one ridiculous squeal, me sitting on my hands to keep from fidgeting, the world premiere of an awesome fun red [read more...]

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