Writing While Pondering

 availability, bondage, honesty, issues, me asking for help, my way, PSO issues  3 Responses »
Jun 052012
 
Writing While Pondering

(Warning: this blog post contains irrational capitalization and emphasis, because apparently that’s What Needs to Happen Today as if my thoughts are the titles of published articles, or as if I were writing in the 19th century. I assume the urge for caps case will fade, but apparently I couldn’t write today without it.) I’ve been traveling for two weeks (decadent of me… the last hurrah from my windfalls from March), visiting family in Houston (which was comforting and nourishing as always), and seeing a friend in a show in Chicago (I am ashamed that I only seem to support the arts when I know participants, but I guess it’s better than never supporting the arts). It was an absurd amount of travel for someone [read more...]

Weekend Women

 availability, celebration, other PSOs, PSO issues  1 Response »
Dec 302011
 
Weekend Women

In bad news, NiteFlirt pulled all of my friend Candace’s listings (she has fixed the problem, but they didn’t reinstate her listings before the holiday weekend — boooooo). In good news, she is available for calls for most of the weekend, and you can still call her! Just go directly to her listing with this link: http://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9486337 Don’t leave poor Candy all dressed up with nobody to play with! If you haven’t called Candace, she’s a good person: sincere and sexually charged and submissive… what more could you possibly want? Or, if neither of us are around, there’s a newcomer on the block: Gentlemen, please welcome Luna Zega, a firecracker sexpot with crazy curves, an erotica writer’s naughty imagination, and a deliciously experienced maturity. I [read more...]

Phone Sex Blog Superlative

 blog meta, me asking for help, PSO issues  8 Responses »
Aug 222011
 
Phone Sex Blog Superlative

I like to think that I have a blog that’s interesting to read, and I would love to make it easier for people to find it. I don’t even make it to the Google search for “phone sex blog” on any page. Sad. So I’m thinking of re-doing my tag line, from “Chance It: The Blogged Life of Galiana Chance, phone sex operator with a fetish for variety” to “Chance It: The Most _________ Phone Sex Blog in the World” But… what to put in that superlative spot? Obviously, any qualitative claim I could put in that blank would be ridiculous, narcissistic, over-the-top, and impossible to quantify. Perfect. The most honest? The most real? The realest (is that word)? The most varied? Or should I [read more...]

The #black Daily

 PSO issues, self-amusement  2 Responses »
Aug 072011
 
The #black Daily

I was on the front page of The #black Daily for a day! (click to see a larger image) Here’s how it happened: The lovely Rachelle (twitter @rachelle4phone; website http://xxxebonyphonesexxxx.info/; NiteFlirt listings: http://www.niteflirt.com/thicknezz) fell into one of those blog-reading black holes with my blog. C’mon, you’ve tooooootally been there and you know exactly what I mean, don’t you? So she tweeted this: #ff @GalianaChance Ahhh, i can’t stop reading your blog !! lol #bbw #submissive #niteflirt #phonesex I replied with a thank you, and savored fond memories of many a pleasantly-mind-numbing hour spent reading interesting blogs from start to finish before I got vertigo (now I can’t take that much scrolling, although sometimes I still read new blogs until I start to feel ill just because [read more...]

Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part VI

 disability, heartbreak, honesty, issues, limits, phone sex, PSO issues, vertigo  1 Response »
Apr 082011
 

This time, the heartbreak is for me. As I’ve explained vaguely elsewhere on the blog, I have mysterious neurological vertigo which makes me feel drunk all the time. And every now and then, it causes other glitches as well, as if my brain’s electrical systems got fried: I mix up words, I can’t finish a sentence, or writing no longer translates into words. Or, in extremely rare cases of extraordinary exhaustion and vertigo combined, I have little episodes where I don’t make sense for a few seconds, as if I’ve drifted into another reality, and I hallucinate a bit, as if I haven’t slept for days. The basic theory behind my vertigo is that my neurons in part of my brain aren’t recharging fast enough, [read more...]

The DADT of Phone Sex

 my way, phone sex, PSO issues  No Responses »
Jan 092011
 

DADT = Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. The military is phasing one out, but today’s blog post will be about the phone sex version. Or at least Galiana’s phone sex version. I don’t want to know if you regret calling me the moment after you climax. I won’t ask, and please don’t tell me. I like to pretend that all my callers have personal freedom to make sexual choices, and a personal entertainment budget, and when you can afford to call, and when “talking with Galiana” is at the top of the list of what sounds entertaining, you choose to spend your hard-earned money on a call with me, talking about whatever feels most entertaining to you, with no guilt involved. Let me be clear and [read more...]

Upsetting Trend

 honesty, issues, phone sex, PSO issues  No Responses »
Dec 292010
 

I’ve had five callers in the past few days do something really upsetting: I’ve been logged in, available for calls, and they’ve let me know they wanted to talk with me via email while I’ve been away from my computer. All five have ended up missing the chance to talk altogether. When I’m logged in to the system and available for calls, THAT RIGHT THEN is the perfect time to call me. It doesn’t matter if I’m away from my computer, I’ll still have the phone with me. If I’m helping with dinner, or bring the dogs inside from our muddy back yard, or sorting through paperwork, or reading a friend’s script draft, the phone is the best way to reach me, which is why [read more...]

Limits

 limits, phone sex, PSO issues  No Responses »
Nov 132010
 

I just realized that I can list my limits here on my blog and link to that from my listings. I don’t want to list my off-limits activities in my listings, because then people searching for those things find me! The list of what I don’t find sexy to talk about lines up fairly well with NiteFlirt’s Terms of Service (from the Adult Content Policy). So here are the things that I will not discuss over the phone, and a little explanation about them: Bestiality: a hard limit of mine personally – no sex with animals, period. I have no sexy response to it. Incest: also a hard limit of mine personally – no sex with family, period. For me, that extends to things like [read more...]

Analysis of a Phone Sex Break Up

 honesty, limits, phone sex, PSO issues  2 Responses »
Nov 082010
 

I try to keep this blog focused on positive things for a few reasons: The blog should reflect the same aspects of my personality as I reflect on-phone, and I always make sure I’m in a positive space before I log in to take phone sex calls I want to remember the positive things more than I want to remember the negative ones I have other resources to process negative things: family, friends, and a therapist I used to see who I could see again if I wished I don’t want negative images of me stuck in your mind, because I want you to see me as: smart, fun, creative, sex-positive, and self-assured-but-with-random-incongruous-bouts-of-insecurity But I can’t shake this call by my usual channels: I think [read more...]

Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part III

 heartbreak, other PSOs, phone sex, PSO issues  9 Responses »
Oct 192010
 

Part I was about a first -time caller who captured my concern. Part II was about a regular caller who may have been a two-way addiction. Part III, today’s blog, is about my co-workers, other phone sex operators (PSOs). I had a new caller over the weekend, we’ll call him “Evanston Crush” because he lived part of his life in Evanston, where I went to college (Go Cats!). He’d been reading my blog for two weeks, trying to resist calling me because he didn’t want to know if the persona in his head was different than the reality (which I find endearing and flattering). We had a really sexy call: he asked me about my open marriage, how I pick lovers, how I’ve explored to  [read more...]

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