I regularly get requests to spend time and attention outside the phones, with no compensation. I think all sex workers do. The requests seem to have a few common flavors: Fetish Check/Scene Set-Up: I want to make sure you can do my thing Anxiety: I want to make sure you won’t bite Flattery: You seem too good to be true, so could you respond so I know I didn’t dream you up? Familiarity: I need to get to know you first Cash-strapped: I don’t have money yet, but I’ll make it up to you when I do Checking In: I’m an existing repeat customer and want to connect a bit between calls Here’s the advantage I have over people who were not technical consultants for [read more...]
Jan 302011