May 172013
 
NiteFlirt Awards

NiteFlirt started doing awards recently for top earners. Gold = above 99th percentile, Silver = 96th-99th percentile, Bronze = 91st – 95th percentile. I was full-time on NiteFlirt for about 19.5 months, from July 15, 2010 through about the end of February 2012, and I earned all my awards during that time. Awards are based on semi-monthly periods, so two awards equals one month. Here are my awards. That means: I was in the top 9% for 15.5 months (79% of the time, during which I moved twice) I was in the top 4% for 11.5 months (58% of the time) I was in the top 1% for 4.5 months (23% of the time) The “Rising Star” award means that I was one of the [read more...]

Jun 052012
 
Writing While Pondering

(Warning: this blog post contains irrational capitalization and emphasis, because apparently that’s What Needs to Happen Today as if my thoughts are the titles of published articles, or as if I were writing in the 19th century. I assume the urge for caps case will fade, but apparently I couldn’t write today without it.) I’ve been traveling for two weeks (decadent of me… the last hurrah from my windfalls from March), visiting family in Houston (which was comforting and nourishing as always), and seeing a friend in a show in Chicago (I am ashamed that I only seem to support the arts when I know participants, but I guess it’s better than never supporting the arts). It was an absurd amount of travel for someone [read more...]

May 282012
 
PSO FAQ

I’ve been asked a lot of questions about being a Phone Sex Operator, so I thought I’d pull together a Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ). Enjoy! What does PSO stand for? Phone Sex Operator, which I’ve been since July 2010. Why did you become a Phone Sex Operator? I was a theater major (1988-1992), who became a self-taught learn-on-the-job programmer/data analyst/tech consultant/business analyst/IT manager (1995-2009), then I came down with a mysterious neurological vertigo that makes me feel drunk all the time and prevents me from managing geeks (2009-present). When I found a medicine that balanced my brain chemistry enough to allow me to talk on the phone, answer emails, and write blog entries now and then, I realized I had the skills to try being [read more...]

Jan 252012
 
Galiana and Devant

So, remember how I told you that my roommate (aka my husband’s lover, aka my pixie playmate) wants to be a phone sex operator? Well, you know how starting a new thing can be scary until you know for sure you can do it? Apparently Devant needs a kick in the ass to get her solo career started. Soooooo…. I’m pleased to announce that I’ve started a “couples” listing on NiteFlirt where Devant and I will take calls together! Here’s the link to the listing: http://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9661193 It’s gonna cost ya to call. We’re going to experiment with rates, but I’m not gonna lie, it’ll be pricey. Why would we charge more than double to spend time with both of us? Well, as it turns out, [read more...]

Jan 222012
 
Listings Rework

In my first year as a phone sex operator, I re-did my listings 18 times. Oh, sure, about half those versions were minor changes, but still, that’s an awful lot of tweaking. In months 12-18 (I totally missed my year-and-a-half-iversary), I’ve only redone my listings once so far, so it was time for me to muck around on them. The simplest change is that I added my new “Galiana Chance: heart of a girlfriend, imagination of a whore” banner to all my listings. The more complex change is that I have reversed my experiment with having multiple “characters” (Smart Fun Galiana, Hypno Galiana, and Ms Galiana – three separate NiteFlirt logins). I’m going back to just Smart Fun Galiana. My individual listings will be more [read more...]

Jan 212012
 
Heart of a Girlfriend, Imagination of a Whore

I have a new tagline: Galiana Chance, Phone Sex Operator with the Heart of a Girlfriend, Imagination of a Whore. I made new banners, too! I love that the pictures were taken very recently (less than a month ago), so I don’t feel guilty about having my first pictures be over a year old old. Good. Grief. Time flies. I took the picture on the left before the kinky Christmas party where my husband and I first met Devant (iPhone self-portrait for the win), and the one of the right was my photo shoot with Sir Wallter. I just realized (after testing the phrase on a dozen people, making the banners, and posting the banner on my blog) that I used to have problems with [read more...]

Jan 102012
 
Welcome Lady Devant

In 2011, we lost our house, moved, I found new vertigo medications, my husband found a great job out of town so we lived apart for 5 months, then I moved again to live with him. I said many times, “I hope 2012 is boring.” So far in 2012, we hosted our first BDSM/kinkster play party, my husband and I each had separate lovers spend the night in our home for the first time ever, and now… ummm… we’ve decided to invite in a roommate who also happens to be my husband’s lover/playmate/girlfriend (the labels are fuzzy, but he beats her and he fucks her and he loves her, so whatever that is). And just to completely toss my life into the category of “stuff [read more...]

Jan 042012
 
Three-Day Party

With only two days to prep, we decided to have a New Year’s Eve party for all our new kinkster community friends who were “holiday orphans” this year (my mom’s term for friends we invited to our holidays when I was growing up – it’s a fabulous tradition that I’m glad to carry on). The party didn’t really end until Monday evening around 9pm when my lover went back home to sleep in his own bed after 2 nights with me, and I crawled, exhausted and deliriously happy, into the guest room so my husband could keep fucking his new girlfriend. Wh-wh-wh-WHAT? To back up a bit: at noon on Saturday, my husband had never met my local lover, and although my husband had been [read more...]

Dec 302011
 
Weekend Women

In bad news, NiteFlirt pulled all of my friend Candace’s listings (she has fixed the problem, but they didn’t reinstate her listings before the holiday weekend — boooooo). In good news, she is available for calls for most of the weekend, and you can still call her! Just go directly to her listing with this link: http://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9486337 Don’t leave poor Candy all dressed up with nobody to play with! If you haven’t called Candace, she’s a good person: sincere and sexually charged and submissive… what more could you possibly want? Or, if neither of us are around, there’s a newcomer on the block: Gentlemen, please welcome Luna Zega, a firecracker sexpot with crazy curves, an erotica writer’s naughty imagination, and a deliciously experienced maturity. I [read more...]

Dec 142011
 
Taglines and Thumbnails

Because Candace has been nagging me to enlarge the font on my NiteFlirt phone sex listings, I decided to update my taglines and thumbnail pictures while I was at it. So now, all my taglines include the words “caring” and “genuine” and “playful”, specifically chosen for the holiday season, to attract people who are browsing NiteFlirt in search of a friendly connection during a time of the year that can be tough. Last December I had tons of fun and made lots of new friends on the phone. Because my availability will be somewhat more limited this year, I don’t expect to have quite the same influx of new voices to my menagerie, but I am looking forward to those one-last-call-before-I-travel calls, with their delicious [read more...]