NiteFlirt Awards

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May 172013
 
NiteFlirt Awards

NiteFlirt started doing awards recently for top earners. Gold = above 99th percentile, Silver = 96th-99th percentile, Bronze = 91st – 95th percentile. I was full-time on NiteFlirt for about 19.5 months, from July 15, 2010 through about the end of February 2012, and I earned all my awards during that time. Awards are based on semi-monthly periods, so two awards equals one month. Here are my awards. That means: I was in the top 9% for 15.5 months (79% of the time, during which I moved twice) I was in the top 4% for 11.5 months (58% of the time) I was in the top 1% for 4.5 months (23% of the time) The “Rising Star” award means that I was one of the [read more...]

Becoming a Kinky Presenter

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Apr 302013
 

Did I happen to mention that I was a presenter at Beat Me in St Louis in March? The class was “Phone Sex and Distance BDSM”. The way I got the gig was to write the organizers and say approximately “I’m willing to present free if you need an awkward slot filled.” Saturday morning 9 am after a late dungeon party? You betcha! So I put together a list of classes I’m willing to teach. I’m sure I’ll be updating it, but I wanted to remember how it started. * Distance BDSM and Phone Sex * Kinky Ice Breaker Game: “Choose An Offer” * Hosting Play Parties * Basic BDSM Safety & Negotiations 1. Distance BDSM and Phone Sex – sharing my experiences, ideas, mistakes, [read more...]

The Camera Adds

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Jun 142012
 

Back in December 2011, I took one too many anti-vertigo medicines after getting dizzy after shooting a custom video, so I decided it would be a fantastic time to wax philosophical on camera. Most of what I shot that evening was unsuitable for viewing by anyone other than my Recycle Bin, but this one was pretty funny. I was getting frustrated at how disproportional I looked when I was in any position other than sitting, leaning forward, with my elbows resting on my knees. So I talked about other positions and showed just exactly how unflattering some other angles are. But there are a couple of nice moments where I hit good angles and I look deliciously curvy instead of freakishly out of proportion. Also, [read more...]

PSO FAQ

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May 282012
 
PSO FAQ

I’ve been asked a lot of questions about being a Phone Sex Operator, so I thought I’d pull together a Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ). Enjoy! What does PSO stand for? Phone Sex Operator, which I’ve been since July 2010. Why did you become a Phone Sex Operator? I was a theater major (1988-1992), who became a self-taught learn-on-the-job programmer/data analyst/tech consultant/business analyst/IT manager (1995-2009), then I came down with a mysterious neurological vertigo that makes me feel drunk all the time and prevents me from managing geeks (2009-present). When I found a medicine that balanced my brain chemistry enough to allow me to talk on the phone, answer emails, and write blog entries now and then, I realized I had the skills to try being [read more...]

Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part VI

 disability, heartbreak, honesty, issues, limits, phone sex, PSO issues, vertigo  1 Response »
Apr 082011
 

This time, the heartbreak is for me. As I’ve explained vaguely elsewhere on the blog, I have mysterious neurological vertigo which makes me feel drunk all the time. And every now and then, it causes other glitches as well, as if my brain’s electrical systems got fried: I mix up words, I can’t finish a sentence, or writing no longer translates into words. Or, in extremely rare cases of extraordinary exhaustion and vertigo combined, I have little episodes where I don’t make sense for a few seconds, as if I’ve drifted into another reality, and I hallucinate a bit, as if I haven’t slept for days. The basic theory behind my vertigo is that my neurons in part of my brain aren’t recharging fast enough, [read more...]

OKCupid and April Fools’ Day

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Apr 012011
 

My sister just called me, and started the conversation with, “This is not an April Fools’ Day joke, although it sounds like one.” (side note: Last time she said that, she was unexpectedly pregnant. Seriously, why the hell would you tell your family you’re pregnant on April Fools’ Day? Answer: she didn’t realize what day it was when she told Mom, but then she had to tell me that same day. Poor Mom answered, “That’s not funny” and they had quite a conversation while my sister figured out why she had responded that way.) I have an OKCupid profile, and it’s active, because every few weeks, I get a request from a caller to look at his profile and give him my honest feedback on [read more...]

40th Birthday Shoot Summary

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Mar 302011
 
40th Birthday Shoot Summary

At last. At long long long long last, my final blog post announcing a photo set for sale from my 40th birthday celebration photo shoot. This is the last picture set I am putting together, and it’s my favorite. (note about self-management: I knew if I posted this set earlier, I’d quit and never finish the other ones. I have to save the best for last or I lose steam.) I had such grand aspirations for the shoot: 4 outfits (if you count “naked” as an outfit), and with each outfit, I had: * a way to masturbate * a way to look toppy * a way to look submissive * a way to be oral * and unique poses for that set By the [read more...]

Laughing Set

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Mar 302011
 
Laughing Set

During my 40th birthday celebration photo shoot, of course there were times when I totally lost track of whatever it was I supposed to be doing and just burst into laughter… because that’s just who I am. Thankfully, my photographer thought those moments were worth capturing. The pictures for sale are 4.5 times larger than these preview sample pictures, so there’s amazing detail. BIRTHDAY LAUGHING 34 pictures. 2048 px. $10. These 32 hi-res pictures are of me in all three outfits, plus some naked, cracking myself up. Not quite able to look threatening while flipping someone off: … or laughing at someone else’s joke: … or feeling awkward after hog-tying myself and not-quite-completely flipping myself over (yes, they were refusing to help me until she [read more...]

Pinups

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Mar 302011
 
Pinups

I’m so excited to do the rest of the blog posts to announce the last of my picture sets from my 40th birthday celebration photo shoot! These “Pinup” sets are of the happy, flirty shot in each outfit, along the lines of classic pinup poses. All three sets have fantastic shots from behind, or of me lying on my tummy, for those of you who enjoy such things (I know, nobody who reads this blog likes women with big round buns, but I thought I’d say it just in case… /grin) The number before the “px” indicates that all pictures in the set are at least that many pixels tall or wide. That means the pictures for sale are 4.5 times larger than the sample [read more...]

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