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This Crazy Birthday

birthday, celebration, gifts, issues, vertigo, words 1 Response »

Sep 112012

I wrote this for a few friends, but thought I’d share it with you too. I’m turning 42 on September 18. It’s going to be awesome because that means I’ll be The Answer for a year (geek reference here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phrases_from_The_Hitchhiker%27s_Guide_to_the_Galaxy#Answer_to_the_Ultimate_Question_of_Life.2C_the_Universe.2C_and_Everything_.2842.29 ). And any year that you’re The Answer to the Ultimate Question has to be a great year. So, that’ll rock. But … I was born on my father’s 28th birthday, so he would have been turning 70, if he were still alive. I grew up thinking of it as “our birthday”, but this will my 20th birthday I’ve celebrated without him since the heart attack that took him at age 50. So. That’ll suck. And on Sept 24, I have a settlement hearing for [read more...]

Tell Me You Love Me

love, lust, manipulation, what I want, words, writing 11 Responses »

Sep 062011

I just realized, just this moment, that there is a phrase I utter in my fantasies, in my mind, all the time, that I can hear echoing in my head as the prelude to almost any self-arousal, and as an essential part of any masturbation, but I have never uttered it during phone sex: tell me you love me Late at night, when I start getting sleepy and snuggly, and I take a deep breath and listen to my body, those words echo through my mind before I know where they will lead, but they set the stage. tell me you love me I worry about being manipulative, even though I know sometimes I am, by the nature of the business. But I have lines [read more...]

Summer Fling

love, power, subbing, whore, words 4 Responses »

Sep 042011

I started my non-mainstream sexual explorations as a submissive, and have morphed into a switch-leaning-dominant. This week, I invested a tremendous amount of energy and passion in my femdom identity, defending and celebrating male submissives not only on my blog, but also on comments on other blogs that were apparently intelligent enough to be requoted. So what was the perhaps inevitable response of the universe to ensure my life remains in balance? I had one of the craziest, most intense whirlwinds ever with … wait for it … a new dominant male caller. Everyone who saw that coming, raise your hand. Hmmm, everybody, huh? In retrospect, the only surprise is that I was surprised. The day we met, he called me twice, for a total [read more...]

New Tagline

blog meta, feedback slut, words 2 Responses »

Aug 312011

I asked for advice on a new blog tagline, and I’ve settled on one. The old one was: The Blogged Life of Galiana Chance, a phone sex operator with a fetish for variety The new one is: The Phone Sex Blog of Galiana Chance, a genuine gal and “a very satisfying phone fuck” Many thanks to SAFL for repeating the word “genuine” often enough for me to finally remember it, and to Gravelly Moon for his very first feedback to me ever, which was, “Witty, sexy, fun, and completely in to my fantasy. She’s a great flirt and a very satisfying phone fuck.” I had been taking calls for 15 days. His feedback made me high. The old blog tagline sounded classy, well-written, and maybe [read more...]

Switches Get It…

dear galiana, inner cast, my way, the biz, words 2 Responses »

Aug 102011

Now that I have rewritten my Mistress / Dominant / Domme / Domina / FemDom / Toppy / insert your term of choice to indicate “the partner in charge of leading the activities” phone sex listings, and I am happy enough with them for the time being (to refresh your memory, they look like this: http://www.niteflirt.com/ms+galiana), it’s time to start advertising. As I researched options, I found myself posing this question to the owner of a very well-trafficked Domme site: My “unique spin” – if you will – is that I am not a princess-ey bitch; instead, I am a nice, empathetic human being who genuinely enjoys focusing sexual attention on submissive males. I truly enjoy directing them to distraction. Do you think there is [read more...]

Question of the Day

hypno, me asking for help, name, topping, words 6 Responses »

May 102011

Since my two other usernames have been dormant for so long while I’m (ostensibly) rewriting them, I am considering renaming them as well as reworking them. The one that was known as “Mistress Galiana” (which I’m about halfway done rewriting) will be changing to “Ms Galiana”. I considered and rejected “Lady Galiana” “Queen Galiana” “Domme Galiana” “Vixen Galiana” “Minx Galiana” “Goddess Galiana” “Galiana In Charge” “Galiana Leads” and plain old “Galiana Chance”. My reasons for rejection were many, but it basically boils down to “I think too much about details like this, but fer fuxx sake just pick one already”. I was planning on leaving my hypnosis-focused username as is: “Hypno Galiana” but a long-time caller suggested the possibility of “Galiana Trance”. I can’t decide [read more...]

Tussle-Bunny Fuck-Scrambled

phone sex, words, writing No Responses »

Feb 192011

I make up phrases. Today I was describing what kind of personality I tend to have when I put on an Australian accent, and I said, “I get all tussle-bunny” and then I realized that maybe I’m the only person who knows what that means. I should correct that. Here: tussle-bunny: playful, with a high sex drive, enjoys wrestling and/or struggling while fucking, usually used to describe a female Then later, after the sex part of a call, I described myself as fuck-scrambled. At that point, I’m just having a day of making up phrases, and clearly I needed to blog about it. For your edification: fuck-scrambled: an inability to clearly and coherently communicate verbally after an intense sexual experience Feel free to use them [read more...]

Lover Experience

phone sex, pictures, words 2 Responses »

Feb 112011

In the midst of sorting through my pictures from September’s photo shoot, I found one that I hadn’t focused on before, but now it’s my current favorite picture of myself: First of all, that babydoll has a bra strap around back, so dang, my boobs look amazingly perky for DDs (did I mention that I got fitted for a bra and found out that I’m a DD, not a D like I thought? Crazy.) Then the soft purple fabric, with the soft scarf-looking headband, and the flowing gypsy-ish earrings, and my flowing gypsy-ish wavy hair … all together, it’s a soft look physically. But the real attraction for me is my expression: I look as if I am enjoying the company of whoever I am [read more...]

Variety Fetish

honesty, my lusts, phone sex, words 1 Response »

Feb 082011

I have finally realized what my fetish is: variety. The definition of having a fetish that makes the most sense to me is: sexual stimulation which you require in order to achieve sexual satisfaction. The definition of having a kink that makes the most sense to me is: sexual stimulation that is unusual or non-mainstream which you enjoy. By those definitions, I don’t have a fetish for any particular activity, because the activities of any one sexual encounter may be completely different than the activities of another sexual encounter, and I can find both encounters thoroughly satisfying. But here’s what I could never find satisfying: the same encounter, with the same partner, over and over, with nothing else in the mix. And really, I need [read more...]

Interactive Erotica

erotica, phone sex, quote, words No Responses »

Oct 042010

I was exchanging some sexual history with “Doc Cupid,” who, like me and several other callers, discovered his interest in some kinks by reading about them first. Stuff like Literotica, the Alt Sex Stories Text Repository, my time on ERWA. He said that now he enjoys video more than writing, and added, “and, of course, what you do, which is like interactive erotica, isn’t it?” Why yes! Yes, that’s exactly what it’s like. I LOVE THAT DESCRIPTION SO MUCH. Side note: Maybe I should wait until my happy post-orgasm hormones fade before posting blog entries. They seem to cause spontaneous caps lock.