About & Faves
I am Galiana Chance.
Roughly in order of the amount of time I spend, I am:
- a wife in a non-monogamous marriage
- an overly concerned pet parent to two rescue dogs
- an active member of my local kinkster community
- a writer and educator about kinky things
- a daughter, sister, aunt, and niece
- a very sporadic phone sex worker
I am also the victim of a mysterious vertigo stemming from a neurological imbalance, which leaves me feeling at least slightly drunk all the time. My vertigo precludes me from returning to my former job as a data analyst / IT manager. I still coach my husband in his technical professional path to pretend I’m staying in touch with corporate life, because I miss some things about it.
For your convenience, I have created a guided tour of some blog posts which allow you to learn more about me than maybe anybody actually wants to know.
My 10 Favorite Blog Posts So Far (in chronological order):
- Love, The English Language, And Not Completely Pretending – “There is an Eskimo language with twelve words for snow, yet the English language has only one word for love, which is clearly grossly inadequate.”
- Heartbreak And Phone Sex – “I might understand how waiters seem to judge you when you order dessert.”
- I Know Why – “You’re so strong all the time, aren’t you? For everyone else?”
- Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part IV – “And when she built her own replacement from her memories and her emotional makeup, inevitably, it loved him.”
- Lover Experience – “My husband has to be a good fit for all that crap, poor guy… But a lover… well, that’s different, isn’t it?”
- In Celebration of the Male Submissive – “So that’s the heartbreak. Here is the celebration: I love the way a man’s breath catches when my voice slows a bit, and I tell him to put his hands behind his back.”
- Summer Fling – “I wanted more with a hunger that made me feel like I could eat the world… and that was the moment I knew that I would be okay, no matter what.”
- How’d It Go? – “I work, making only 10% more than I would make if I were not working and on disability. But I can work, so I do.”
- Thoughts from an Energy Rebound – “this makes me feel so alive, so strong, so useful, so beautiful. Do you understand that I need you as much as you need me? Do you really?”
- PSO FAQ – “I researched phone sex companies by doing something brilliant like googling ‘phone sex jobs’”
About Me as a Phone Sex Operator:
- Happy Birthday, Galiana – how I chose the name Galiana
- My Real Name – and why Galiana feels like “my real name”
- Phone Sex Experience – some experiences, skills, and tendencies that help me do this
- Role Play / Fembot Voice Sample – a sampling of my vocal range
- Empathic Metamorph: Then and Now – another tendency that helps me do phone sex (and makes me a geek)
- Honestly Orally Fixated and Honestly Orally Fixated, Part B and Five Blowjob Night – my oral fixation in sordid detail
- Feedback Slut – my feedback fixation
- Straight-A Insecurities – my good girl compulsions
About What I Do on Phone Sex Calls:
- The Best Thing So Far – how I like to interact with new callers to discover what lusts we have in common
- Memory and Notes – what my notes contain, and what I remember
- Oh The Places I’ll Go and Girls Next Door Are Freaks – examples of why I can’t easily answer the question “What do most of your callers want to talk about?” because the answers are overwhelmingly varied
About What You Should Do on Phone Sex Calls:
- Tip For Phone Sex Callers – introduce yourself as your user name, or some compound name, to avoid identity mix-ups
- Help Me Help You – tell your PSO what you want, please, I’m begging you
- My Least Favorite Thing – try to sign off somehow before hanging up, or I’ll worry we got cut off
- The Value of Time – understand what I am and am not willing to do for free
About My Life in Addition to Phone Sex:
- Galiana Chance, Ex-Techie – I used to be an IT person, and now I have vertigo, and why I love doing phone sex
- Yes I’m Married – Yes He Knows – No He’s Not Listening- I’m married, we’re openly non-monogamous, he knows I do phone sex, and he’s not listening to my calls
- Awesome Support- my family knows what I do, and so do some of my friends
- Galiana’s Inner Dialogue – my possibly insane way of explaining internal urges which sometimes are at odds with one another
- Weight, Weight, I Got This – how I gained weight and why it doesn’t bother me… much
- Welcome To My Birthday Season! – how I felt about turning 40, and a few gift ideas
About My In-Person Kinks
- Variety Fetish – why it’s hard for me to answer the question, “What do you like?”
- Heartland Kink – how I got involved with the kinkster community in the Midwest
- Three-Day Party – how my husband’s girlfriend started living with us
- The Hand Orgy – an amazing evening, and a very not-safe-for-work photo
About My Limitations and Challenges:
- Limits- explanation of stuff I won’t talk about, and a list of some stuff I will
- Chatting – why I don’t do chat-for-pay and why I don’t chat long for free
- Heartbreak and Phone Sex Part VI – why I cut off some callers after just an hour
- Time Management – the thing I need to work on the most
- Seven Things At Once – and maybe why I need to keep working on it
About My Little Theories On Life:
- You Like What You Like – my theory about sexual urges
- Domination and Submission – my theories about domination and submission
- But I Want Something – how Maslow’s hierarchy of needs plays out when you have everything you thought you wanted
About Things I Find Amusing:
- I’ll Have What She’s Having – Sally totally kicks my ass
- Big Black Cocks and… Washing Machines? – my strange laundry room decoration
- Mistaken Identities – I would never confuse my callers, especially not twice in one day
- The #Black Daily – the new voice of the black experience in America: cracker-white me?
- A Bit Better, and Amusements – an ex-coworker’s and my mother’s impressions of me
- Holiday Party Oopsie – why you can’t take me anywhere
Blog Posts That Turned Into Series:
- What I Want
- What I Want: Honesty – “I loooooove me some pretending, but in those pretend spaces, I want honesty in what you’re feeling.”
- What I Want: Vivid Imagination – “When he let me go, I felt cold and physically shivered, then remembered I wasn’t actually naked, or wet, or on a tile floor. I was there.”
- What I Want: Lust for Me – “The Wanker loves that I have a husband and lover, but no desire to procreate – he finds my high sex drive appealing in and of itself.”
- Slut versus Whore
- Sluts Whores And Housewives – “I have always had contempt for women who sell sex without being willing to call themselves whores.”
- Accepting My Inner Whore – “I think I tend to reject my Inner Whore for two big reasons: because I want to value people for who they are more than for their material worth, and because I don’t want to be dependent on men for money.”
- Maybe A High-Class Whore – “So I can imagine choosing to spend inordinate amounts of money to watch someone enjoy herself for days on end.”
- Celebrations and Anniversaries
- Celebration Shoot – kicking off 40 with an erotic photo shoot
- Anniversaries – five months, six months, twenty-two months, eighteen years
- Happy Anniversaries – five years of marriage, nine months of phone sex
- A Year and A Fortnight – how things change
- Happy Birthday (soon) Happy 400 (now) – a calmer 41
- Heartbreak and Phone Sex
- Heartbreak And Phone Sex – “Why… why does this turn me on?”
- Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part II – “I just realized he deleted his user account.”
- Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part III – “something is wrong with the men who call us”
- Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part IV – “I was now two people: Galiana-me, the role player, who wanted to enjoy myself and give him the best experience possible, and Alexandra-me, also known as ‘the Alexandra replica’, a robot girl who loves him.”
- Heartbreak and Phone Sex, Part V – “But he thought about sex all the time, and he was tired of being afraid of his own thoughts”
- Heartbreak and Phone Sex Part VI – “phone sex almost never triggers the deepest kinds of vertigo for me… That’s such a persnickety word, isn’t it? Almost.”
Logistics:
- How to Reach Me: http://galianachance.com/blog/contact-and-links/
- Things to Buy from Me: http://galianachance.com/blog/stuff-to-buy/ – pictures, videos, and recordings for sale via NiteFlirt’s pay-to-view system
- My Phone Sex Home Pages with My Listings: http://www.niteflirt.com/smart+fun+galiana
And that concludes our “Welcome to Chance It: The Blogged Life of Galiana Chance” Tour!
Welcome aboard.