“Lauren Rules” put together a fantastic how-to for international callers wanting to use NiteFlirt. The web site won’t dial you at an international number, but you can dial into the phone system yourself, or you can use Skype to get a US number. I’m just going to link to Lauren’s page instead of pasting the instructions here, in case she updates: http://laurenrules.com/international.html Thanks tons, Lauren! You definitely rule for sure!!
In general, I try to live by the concept, “Don’t ask the question if you don’t want to know the answer.” But today, ignoring the nagging warning in the back of my mind, I answered my lingering question, “What percentage of my income has been from very short calls (less than 5 minutes)?” I was hoping to be pleasantly surprised by a high number like 10% — some number I wouldn’t want to lose. And I expected that pleasant surprise to fuel my motivation to give my best for new callers who seem to be on a short-call pace. The answer, unfortunately, was “about 2%”. Rats. That answer does not motivate me. And being less motivated for new, fast callers makes it more likely for [read more...]
I’ve had five callers in the past few days do something really upsetting: I’ve been logged in, available for calls, and they’ve let me know they wanted to talk with me via email while I’ve been away from my computer. All five have ended up missing the chance to talk altogether. When I’m logged in to the system and available for calls, THAT RIGHT THEN is the perfect time to call me. It doesn’t matter if I’m away from my computer, I’ll still have the phone with me. If I’m helping with dinner, or bring the dogs inside from our muddy back yard, or sorting through paperwork, or reading a friend’s script draft, the phone is the best way to reach me, which is why [read more...]
I’ve finally talked a real-world friend into becoming a phone sex operator! Well, okay, she’s a real-world friend of a real-world friend, but she’s AWESOME. My friend since childhood, this is her best friend, and she’s starting phone sex at my urging. She has a theater background like mine, so if you have any role plays waiting for a smart, curvy redhead… give her a call! So do me a favor, boys, and give her a nice gentle break-in and a few five-star feedbacks to get her going. Well, actually, she describes herself as an “aggressive submissive”, so not toooooo gentle… You can find her here: Julie In Red:http://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/9495219-Curvy-Ginger-wants-to-play- Welcome aboard Julie!! I’m thrilled you’re here!!
Just before I left for my holiday travel, I had a super-fun call with someone who likes to guide and tease me as I masturbate. This particular call, the batteries were out on my normal red vibrator, so I used the pink egg vibrator for insertion, and the purple bumpy one for clitoral stimulation. I always get wet when I masturbate, but this time it just so happened to form an awesome, easily visible ball of girl-goo on my vibe, so I took a picture. You can see my discarded panties at the foot of the bed, and the rumpled covers that make it clear I had been thrashing. Boy, had I ever… And yes, absolutely I cleaned it off. Cum of either gender does [read more...]
I’m home a day earlier than I thought I’d be, back in the Fuckatorium, with a big long list of new blog entry ideas, to-dos for reworking my listings, and lots of energy for phone sex. I was logged in a few times while I was traveling, but if you wanted to find me and missed me, I’m sorry to have missed you (and a reminder: send me an email on NiteFlirt or at galiana at ymail dot com if you want to request that I come on at a certain time for you – I can often accommodate). Dancing: One night, I wasn’t logged in due to going out with my sister (on anti-vertigo meds that let me do more for short periods of [read more...]
I have a caller who has been trying to avoid thinking about a certain type of fetish, and he used to watch a lot of videos about this certain thing, so now when he goes to the YouTube home page, he’s inundated with reminders. I recommended not logging in when he goes to YouTube, or making a new account, so it wouldn’t remind him. He followed my suggestion, and realized how much energy he’d been wasting fighting off those images, and felt silly for not having thought of the solution on his own. I told him in an email: I’ve noticed that “thinking of doing something different than what you’ve been doing” isn’t a skill humans have in abundance. I just got off the phone [read more...]
Funny little things have changed for me since being a phone sex worker. I was having a slow-motion flirty exchange with someone on a Reddit thread (at the blistering speed of 1-2 messages per day), which moved to private messages, and I found myself unsatisfied with flirting via written words; I wanted to hear his voice. That is completely opposite of my urges since I started flirting on the internet in 2002 – I have said before that I learn all I need to know from email / chat exchanges, so it was startling to me to have dissatisfaction with his writing as a communication medium. My people-watching has completely changed for the naughtier. I’ve always made up stories for strangers to amuse myself, but [read more...]
He liked the picture I sent him to say thanks for leaving me feedback. A lot. He saw it on his phone, and it filled him with such lust he escaped to a remote bathroom at work to call me. We played, with me riding him in a car, on a couch, him drilling into me while trapping my knees with his arms. He came. His breathing returned to normal. I could hear him washing his hands. He sighed deeply. (in a singsong voice) “The rest of my day is gonna suuuuuuuuck nowwwwww.” I think he meant “by comparison because that was so incredibly fun to play with you.” If I find out later that’s not what he meant, I’m going to ignore that, and [read more...]
It’s 2 a.m. and I’m wiiiiiide awake. I only slept about 4 hours last night because I had a great late call, but I got up early for my dental appointment. Since I was consciously sedated for that, I slept about… ummm… ten hours while the medicine wore off. Sometimes it doesn’t feel like sleep to my body, and I can sleep that night anyway. Not tonight. Tonight I’m up ‘n’ at ‘em. Well, I would be if someone would call. I had the phones turned off until I was totally sure I wasn’t incoherent. Well. Y’know, no more incoherent than usual. I do have a tendency to lose my words when I’m a few minutes out from a big giant orgasm. Helloooooo late night [read more...]